When I was introduced to the Enneagram. At first, I didn’t get it. But, for some reason, I kept reading about it and started following a bunch of Instagram accounts that focused on it. What started to make sense to me was that it is about the reasons WHY you do something, rather than WHAT you’re doing. That was super relevant for me because so often my words and actions did not match up and people have told me they have a hard time reading me. The WHY was only something I knew. It couldn’t be revealed to me in a personality quiz.

This is something that I use now as part of my self reflection and self discovery. It has been super fascinating to me and I want to share it with you too! This tool has helped me to recognize when I’m not being my best self. It also helps me to nurture my best traits and be proud of who I am. This tool is great for understanding others in your life, including romantic partners, coworkers, bosses, employees, family members - anyone!! Once you start to see those differences that we all have and embrace them, that’s when we can truly understand others and even love someone unconditionally!

Do some of your own research and get to know yourself more fully!